Tricia Mitchell just posted a lovely blog about the castle in Heidelberg, Germany–accompanied by some of her own photos and memories of this castle over the years, and posing the question of whether her readers had memories to share. I wrote to her that although it’s been almost three decades since I’ve been there (and although I was only nine at the time) the details stick with me–like the memorable remains of the exploded powder-magazine tower.
Actually (here’s a bit of synchronicity), the inaugural entry in my 1984 European travel-diary was dated twenty-eight years ago today, as we headed across-country from Idaho to Chicago O’Hare, visiting family members along the way. Less than a week later we were flashing past the blue lights of the runway and out over the blackness of Lake Superior–hours past our usual bedtime–launching our first-ever off-the-continent adventure. My father the Planner detailed a six-month itinerary, looping and wandering through eighteen countries, some of which no longer exist on today’s maps. And our mother customized our rented bright green V.W. bus–which would serve as “home base” for half a year–with drawers under the seats, hanging-rods across the back, multi-pocket organizers hanging from the seats, and other “homey” touches.
’84 album
When we stayed with dairy-farming friends near Stratford, we sneaked up and down the servant staircase in the century-old stone farmhouse, and took a whole roll of film posing my sister’s teddy bear, Tony, around the farmyard. When we stayed in an apartment converted from the basement servants’ quarters of a London townhouse, my sister came bolting out of the bathroom in excitement to tell us, “There’s a special bathtub just the right size for Tony!” Neither of us had yet been introduced to the concept of the bidet…
When we descended into the underground areas of St. Paul’s Cathedral in London, three of us didn’t think twice about the folding chairs set up for a recent ceremony. My sister, however, stopped in her tracks and cried out (to the amusement of every tour-group in the crypt), “There are DEAD people under this floor, and someone has gone and put CHAIRS on them!!”
We visited Anne Frank’s hidden attic in Amsterdam, and I began to read her diary that night, able to picture precisely the little suite of attic rooms. After Auschwitz, we talked late into the night about the horrors of the Holocaust. We read Classics of literature while visiting the locales where they were set. We visited tombs and birthplaces of historical figures, and sat in the bench of Anne Hathaway’s cottage where Shakespeare is said to have sat when courting her.
When our parents set aside half a day for the Louvre in Paris (thinking that’s all the art we’d be up for) we dragged THEM back for a second full day. We weren’t wild about the Impressionists, but we were fascinated by the rest. I bought a stack of postcards-of-paintings, tucked them into my sketch-kit, and tried to draw my own versions. (Though I do remember my mother suggesting I add underwear to some of the naked people I was drawing after dinner in a fancy French restaurant…)
And even in places where the “Ugly American” tourist-stereotype preceded us and affected local attitudes, our parents found that having young kids in tow often gained them a warmer reception. (I’m reminded of my son’s response when his second-grade teacher complimented his consistently kind manners: “She doesn’t realize that Manners aren’t optional when someone has you for a Mom.” OUR mom is like that too.) We learned to say “please” and “thank you” in the appropriate language for every border we crossed–and my dad also figured out how to say “Can you please suck the Diesel out of our bus?” in French…
I still marvel at my mother’s packing-job for this trip. She had sewed a mix-and-match wardrobe of red-white-and-blue for my sister and me (with matching outfits for our two dolls) and joked that if she lost one of us, she could point to the other and indicate “one just like that.” Failing that, she could use one of the dolls. She sent ahead caches of English-language books for us to pick up along the way, but other than the reading material, the four of us lived for six months out of five suitcases–one each for clothing, and the fifth with camping gear.
My sister lost five or six teeth during the trip, and the Tooth Fairy had to keep paying off in different currencies. We hiked in the Swiss Alps; we donned white coveralls and slid down wooden bannisters into a Polish salt mine where the miners had carved fantastical statues out of salt; we played “Queen of Idaho” in the extravagant Bavarian castles of “Crazy Ludwig”; we bought tulips at a Dutch flower auction; we rented paddle boats on a Hungarian lake; we hired a gondola in Venice (from a gondolier who said he couldn’t sing–so we sang Rounds to him instead); we made brass-rubbings of tombs; we collected charms for a memory-bracelet; we attended performances of yodelers and bagpipers and ethnic dancers; we rode trains and ferries and subways and carriages and double-decker buses; we went with a Dutch friend to be fitted for wooden shoes (not touristy, painted ones, but the type she wears in her garden); we tucked messages into a bottle for a Scottish friend of our dad’s to build into the tumbled-down bit of a 400-year-old dry stone wall he was re-assembling along his field. Maybe another farmer will find our notes a few centuries from now when the wall needs repair again.
We traveled behind the Iron Curtain, and watched at the border between the Germanies while Soviet soldiers spent hours removing absolutely everything out of our bus, reading my mother’s diary, and unwrapping our Christmas presents. At the Polish mine, a hard-used miner my grandfather’s age approached us, removed an enameled shield from his jacket, and pinned it onto mine. Our Polish friend translated his quiet, almost shy explanation: it was an award for saving a life in the mines, and he wanted me to have it because he liked my smile.
We had a National Geographic map of Europe with us, and every evening during those six months we would open it up to trace the day’s adventures with a highlighter. The more permanent paths, however, were being highlighted in our minds. We may have been raised in an Idaho potato-farming town of a just few hundred people, but our parents gave us the gift of understanding–early on–that we’re citizens of the World.
Kana's Chronicles 
delightful post :-)
LikeLike
What an amazing gift your parents gave you by taking this trip!
LikeLike
Thank you for sharing. :)
LikeLike
That was entrancing. Thank you for sharing that memory!
LikeLike
That was wonderful :)
LikeLike
I am very jealous. Wow, what a great plan by your parents. A trip like that would have to have had a profound effect on the rest of your life, which, in itself, is an amazing present from them. We did the Anne Frank house a few years ago and it stands out in my memory track.
LikeLike
That sounds like the trip of a lifetime, with some amazing memories of the world seen through a child’s eyes! Wonderful post.
LikeLike
That was FUN just reading it! What an adventure.
LikeLike
Your parents sound so cool! Great post, Kana!
LikeLike
Your parents must have truly enjoyed your company from a young age – and had a remarkable relationship to even imagine such an adventure!
LikeLike
Wow loved reading this. Sounds like it was amazing.. you learnt so much and never forgot..guess you caught the travel bug early! Love that you were reading classics at such a young age!
LikeLike
Fantastic. Such amazing parents.
LikeLike
Yes!
Hell, they survived raising US! ;)
LikeLike
What delightful and heartwarming memories. A trip not to be forgotten. Thanks for sharing.
LikeLike
Wow. That was very special, thank you for sharing. I couldn’t help but think how some people probably judged your parents, and how wrong those people would have been. That sounded like the trip of a lifetime!
LikeLike
ONE of them! ;)
LikeLike
Hi Kana – I’m just about to head off for a couple of months roaming around Europe with my husband and two boys, aged 9 and 10… Your post was medicine for the anxiety I’m feeling right now as I begin to pack. I hope my kids look back at our trip with their own unique perspective & warm memories.
LikeLike
How FANTASTIC!!
I’m sure they will–and you’ll have your own store of traveling-with-kids stories to accompany theirs. ;) Enjoy that trip–and I hope you’ll be blogging it? :)
LikeLike
…and I hope your children will be keeping their own Journals. Reading about this trip from the girls’ writing at the time is a real joy.
And thanks, Sam. Now I won’t have to write about our travels; you have done so — and wonderfully.
Hugs,
The Packing Queen
LikeLike
Funny thing, Ma–I was just thinking about how fantastic YOUR blogs of this adventure would have been… If we had blogging back then. ;)
LikeLike
Kana, first of all, I’m so happy that my posting of the special Heidelberg Castle inspired you to remember your incredible trip through Europe as a child. Such is the joy of blogging! Thank you for the thoughtful mention. :)
This post was such a joy to read. On this Mother’s Day I’m struck by the talents that our parents or influential adults can nurture in us. You’re a perfect example – from charming scrapbooks, filled with this fun narrative, to the wonderful writing you share today.
What great lessons you learned from this travel adventure! I couldn’t keep from giggling at your bidets as bathtubs comment and the tooth fairy paying out in multiple currencies. Thank you for the tremendously fun read!
LikeLike
And thank YOU for sparking the flood of memory! ;)
LikeLike
What a gtt trip, love the bit about the bathtub for Tony
LikeLike
That should of course read great
LikeLike
My parents gave us lots of amazing trips when we were kids. Sounds like you had some terrific opportunities, as well. What a grand European Tour you had, Kana! Happy Mother’s Day, my friend.
Hugs,
Kathy
LikeLike
I have travelled throughout the world as an adult – never as a child. What a gift that must have been. Travel broadens the mind as nothing else will, and I can’t help but marvel at the detail you still retain about the adventure.
LikeLike
A trip that went far, far beyond the typical ABC tour of Europe (another bloody church, another bloody castle…). Great job, kiddo!
LikeLike
What an amazing glimpse into a wonderful memory. It’s those significant life exeriences that make us who we are and add to the flavor of our writing. Thank you so much for sharing it with us!
LikeLike